Get Focused!

Ask yourself the following three questions for all your relationships. Note:  These are also powerful questions to ask yourself for whatever role or goal that you have.

What kind of person do I want to be?
What does that kind of person say and do?
What can I do today to show up that way?

Do what you just identified and be sure to LAUGH too!

L ove unconditionally...   Dog's live this!  No matter what our mood is, how we treated them the day before, or what time it is, they are there wagging their tails with this unconditional love.  My dogs tell me "I am so happy to see you".  When I allow myself the time to notice this, I can't help but smile and feel loved and loving.  I think there is so much we can learn from dogs on this topic.  How can you demonstrate your unconditional love to your significant other and others?
A sk versus assume...   Ask for what you want, don't assume that the other person knows what you want.  People tend to think that others should respond in a certain way because they should know.  Things yearned for and not spoken become rotten seeds in a relationship.  What goes along with this also is expecting another person to do/say/behave in a certain way that is different than they have been doing all along. 
U ncover understanding...   What makes you happy?  What makes the other person happy?  Find out!  Learn what you "need" and then you can ask for what you want.   What goes hand in hand with this is to understand what you are asking for.  Are you asking your partner to change or do something that he/she is not able to?  If so, is there another way to get your need satisfied and accept your partner unconditionally.  Look at yourself and others through the eyes of innocence, unconditional love and forgiveness.  Here is a good daily practice to adopt:  "What and who can I forgive today?"
G ive freely...   Give gratitudes, compliments, time, gifts, service and forgiveness all without expectation of receiving anything in return.  What is your motivation for giving?  Do you expect the other person to return the good deed?  When you give freely, you are living the principal of unconditional love.  The gift of pure giving without attachment is a wonderful gift to give yourself and to others.  Try it and you will experience the truth of this.
H ave fun...   When we are enjoying ourselves, we become more attractive to ourselves and to others.

People spend a lot of money and time planning their wedding day, which is for a brief moment in time.  Why not spend some time creating the relationships and life you desire, which is for your lifetime!

Want to feel and create more love in your life?  Attend a FREE one hour Fearless Loving teleclass (over the phone) on Monday, February 12, 2007 at 8:15 pm EST

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